~ Broken Hearts ~
~ THIS IS SUCH A TRUE STATEMENT
It takes a minute to like someone ~ an hour to love someone ~ ~ but to forget someone
it takes a life time
I'm sure you have also heard this phrase........
No one has ever died of a broken heart, but when you're suffering from one, it sure feels like your going to die--at least initially.............
A broken heart can cause such an intense reaction that you may feel your life has been completely stripped of meaning. Jobs, hobbies, and friends may
no longer hold any joy. In fact, some of us even experience physical pain with a tight chest, nervous stomach, or terrible insomnia. “Time heals all wounds” is something we have all heard over the years, but do you really have to wait for time
to heal these wounds?
I have always said
and mean it to be true ~ that when you do have a broken heart PLEASE don't hurt yourself by: not eating, locking yourself in your bedroom/home, not answering the phone, not going to work, not seeing or talking to your friends and/or family ~~ because
it is only huring yourself. The person who broke your heart does not know or even could even care less, that this is what your doing to yourself.
DON'T GIVE THEM THE POWER
TAKE BACK YOUR POWER ~ BE STRONG!!!!!
One of the
worst experiences in a person’s life is having their heart broken. Experiencing the pain of a broken heart is one of the toughest pains – both emotionally, and for many people, physically as well. It leads to a certain anxiety that is very
different from other emotions.
A broken heart needs time to heal and this is the ultimate key to recovering
from one – simply give it time and accept that this will eventually have the healing power that you need. However, there are some ways to alleviate this painful feeling and feel somewhat better.
Understand that it’s not about you
Perhaps you have heard this one before and it sounds like a cliché, but the truth is the decision the other person
has taken doesn’t make a statement about you – it is a statement about them. You could suffer and wonder why this is happening to you or you could accept that it has really nothing to do with you and everything negative that your ex has done to
you is based on their inner self, not yours. Accept that the end of the relationship can lead to something better for you and don’t be too harsh on yourself.
Understand that the pain will pass
Everything that you feel at the time of the breakup and immediately after it will eventually pass and the worst will be over. It is normal to feel these emotions,
but be ready to let go when the time comes.
Try to forgive
One of the best ways to mend
your broken heart, believe it or not, is by forgiving the one who broke it. Holding a grudge against them for months will only do you more harm. By harboring negative emotions inside yourself you are becoming hostage of the feeling of betrayal and not allowing
your broken heart to heal. Let go, forgive and don’t think about it.
I personally believe the most important statement in this entire section is:
I go any further about FOREGIVENESS ~ LET ME SAY THIS............
Don't ever beg anyone to love you ~ or even try and make them come back to you ~ ~ not even the one you were involved with and loved ~ but
broke your heart ~ don't stoop that low ~ no one needs have a love that they have to beg for ~
YES LOVE IS 'FRAGILE' AND IT NEEDS TO BE HANDLED WITH LOTS OF TENDER CARE ~ SO THIS BRINGS BE TO THE LAST PART OF THIS
LOVE WILL COME AGAIN ~ IT MAY NOT BE TODAY ~ TOMORROW ~ NEXT WEEK ~ NEXT MONTH OR EVEN NEXT YEAR ~ BUT IT WILL COME AGAIN ~ OPEN YOUR HEART TO THAT LOVE BECAUSE IT MIGHT BE YOUR SOULMATE ~
YOUR TRUE LOVE ~ THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE ~~ HEAL THAT BROKEN HEART ~ BECOME WHOLE AGAIN AND OPEN YOUR HEART TO THAT "NEW LOVE"
And when that NEW LOVE comes into your Heart and offers their Heart to you FOREVER AND ALWAYS ~ HOPEFULLY THEY WILL MAKE ~ YOUR TOES CURL AND ROCK YOUR BOAT...............
THAT IS WHEN YOU WILL KNOW THAT LOVE IS YOUR TRUE LOVE ~ YOUR SOULMATE............RAVISH YOURSELF
IN THAT NEW LOVE.............SAVOUR YOURSELF IN THAT NEW LOVE ~ AND HANDLE WITH CARE ~ LEARNING LESSONS FROM WHEN YOUR HEART WAS BROKEN......DON'T EVER BE SO FRAGILE AND LOST IN ANYONE THAT YOU FIND YOURSELF HEART-BROKEN AGAIN.............BUT THAT DOESN'T
MEAN YOU CAN'T LOVE WITH YOUR ENTIRE HEART AND SOUL..........JUST BE CAREFUL.............LOVE IS AND ALWAYS WILL BE SOMETHING FRAGILE IN ALL OUR LIVES...........
YOUR HAND ~ AND ACCEPT THEIR LOVE♥♥